In one form or another, “Am I a freak?” is a common question.
From the caller who wanted to know if his urge to suck a cock meant he was gay to the poor sissy who asked me if panties would make him less of a man, everyone worries sometimes about how ‘normal’ they are. When you start talking about folks sex lives, they get a bit concerned about whether or not there’s something ‘wrong’ with themselves.
“If you wonder if you’re crazy, you’re not.”
I heard that once in college, and it stuck in my head for a while – right up until I took a psychology course, and learned that it’s possible to be totally bug fuck nuts and still question your own sanity. But, when I’m talking about ‘are you a freak’, I’m not talking about true psychosis or actual insanity. Worries over whether or not you’re normal have very little to do with the state of your mental health, and a lot more to do with how well you fit into society and culture.
Questions of ‘normal’ and ‘freakishness’ are really questions about fitting in.
When you think about sucking a cock and then wonder if that makes you gay, you’re questioning your acceptance in society. “What will my wife think about my love of her panties?” “Will my friends still be my friends if they knew what I get off to?” These are the sorts of worries that underlie your worries that you just might be a freak.
Are you a Freak?
Absolutely not. You’re not crazy, you’re not abnormal, there’s nothing wrong with you. The fantasies that you have are very common. Just take a look around the Enchantrix Empire, you’ll find lots of people who like the things you like, feel like you feel, and you’ll find a whole group of sexy ladies who embrace your unique fetish. You are not a freak, or at least, everyone is just as much of a freak as you are. Ms Harper invites you to come get your freak on!
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WOAH Ms Harper! YAY! And I subscribe to your blog! I read it as me-me as well as Mistress-Me 🙂 I love how you demonstrate in your writing just how much we ADORE our guys (even as we’re being our most wicked! ~laughs~). You’re a class act my friend!
Ms Harper…..another FANTASTIC blog! We do hear things that guys never tell other people…sometimes they barely admit it to themselves. I do think that is one of our *roles* here …. being able to provide a *listening* for these fantasies, desires and urges. I’m of the mind….EXPLORE IT! You always talk about safe and sane exploration, which makes your blog posts sexy, informative and, above all, REAL!
You GO girl!
Oh, Ms Olivia, you sure do know how to make me blush! 😉
I really love our job! We get to listen to the secrets and confidences that our guys can’t tell anyone else. Given that I kinda get off on trust, that’s a huge rush for me.
And when a Mistress that I respect and like turns around and likes my writing? that’s a rush too. Thank you, Ms Olivia for your kind words.
(plus, a good cathartic cry can be such good stress relief…)… this is why I love you 🙂
aaawww… You’re so sweet. 😉
<3
I really love what you said Ms. Harper. It speaks volumes for you and the rest of the wonderful women at LDW. I have never felt I belong. I have never felt like I fit into what society says I should as far as relationships go. A few times I have felt comfortable enough to share my fantasies with my girlfriends, only to be made to feel like I am not normal, and that there is something wrong with me. But here, I feel different. I feel accepted, and I can be myself. And even if some of the people in this community don’t share my same fantasies and desires, there is one thing we do share, and that is the respect and acceptance among us that we are all unique and wonderful no matter what our kink. Thank you ladies of LDW and the rest of the EE community.
Oh, Matty, I just want to give you a big hug for all the times you felt rejected and freakish…
I work with this company of fantastic women because creating a place for people like you to feel warm and accepted and happy is so fulfilling for all of us. Knowing we’ve touched lives and made things better for people who’ve felt so all alone and freakish in the world is like a blessing. I know, so odd to be talking about feeling blessed and making the world a better place on a blog called ‘the Daily Cock’… but there you go.
Thank you, Matty. I hope you find someone someday to share your kinky fantasies with in the real world; in the meanwhile, you have us.
Thank-you Harper.Yes healthy fantasies are great.You stated it well.I think people that are self actualized realize what you wrote is indeed true.
Thanks gigi! I’m glad my writing struck a chord with you. And yeah, after a while you get to where you realize that everyone is a bit of a freak, in their own way. 😉
Very nice and reassuring for our guys! Of course, we can never forget those little humiliation addicts who LIKE to think that they’re total freaks! 😉
Oh, the humiliation freaks are so much fun to play with! I love pushing their ‘freak’ button and getting to call them names? yum! I get to pretend to be a ball busting bitch from hell, who doesn’t care about other people’s feelings and revels in reducing pathetic loosers to crying puddles of nothingness. hee!
There’s just so much that’s fun in our jobs…
(plus, a good cathartic cry can be such good stress relief…)