Does Ms Olivia think you are ‘creepy”?

One of the most common concerns for many men who call phone sex is a worry that I (or anyone) will find you or your sexual fantasy ‘creepy.’  At first, I laughed because, after all, I am a phone sex Mistress …. so, logically if I find you creepy then I am, most assuredly, equally creepy simply because I am the provider of phone sex.

So, let’s talk about the whole nature of being sexually ‘creepy.’ Do you worry that your sexual desire for a sexually Dominant woman to control your cock and orgasm is outside of the so called sexual norm?  Do you wonder if a woman thinks that a man in lingerie is odd?  Are you worried that thinking about being a man sucking cock makes you someone you don’t ‘want’ to be?  In short, do YOU wonder if I think you (or your particular erotic fantasies) are creepy?

I could ask you the same question.  Do you find Me to be a ‘bad person’ because I do phone sex that caters to all the sexual fantasies that I’ve described.

If you’re creepy then I’m an above average slut!

Short (and serious) answer, I am not a creep, a (bad) slut or a (bad) pervert.  And, neither are you!  Your sexual fantasy is not bad or even outside the norm.  What turns you on is what turns you on.  End of story.  That’s the reality of the physical chemistry of arousal.  Now, let’s talk about the reality of linguistics 

I’ve done blog posts about handling your sex secrets.  I’ve done blog posts about reclaiming the word pervert in a self sex positive way.  If you’re familiar with My blog, then you can probably see where My thoughts will go on this topic but, let’s go deeper and that means asking questions.  The Experienced Mistress asks and answers LOTS of questions.