An Interview with Ms Harper of Cock Control

Ms Ally: So Welcome to Cock Control, Ms Harper! What brings you here?

Ms Harper: My insatiable love for all things kinky!

Ms Ally: And how long have you been in love with kinky things?

Ms Harper: If I’m being totally honest, my entire life. I remember having all sorts of really off the wall daydreams and fantasies when I was younger; it wasn’t until I got into college that I finally figured out what was going on.

Ms Ally: And what did you conclude was going on? How did you get so kinky?

Ms Harper: It turns out that I’m a very well adjusted, well socialized sadist, with just a hint of masochistic sybarite tossed on top. I tied up my Barbies and then imagined Ken, or my other Barbies, doing some very perverse things to them.

Ms Ally: Oh my, Poor Barbies! (and Lucky Ken!) So, as you know, a lot of our fans are into Orgasm Denial, and teasing. If you were doing an orgasm denial session…

Ms Harper: mmm

Ms Ally: and you had set your mind to denying the poor stroker…and he begged and he pleaded and you said No No NO, and he offered you $10,000 to change your mind – what would you do?

Ms Harper: I’d laugh at him. As if I could put a price on the pleasure I get from hearing him beg, plead, whine, and even try to bribe his way out his predicament! Offer me money… now that’s funny!

Ms Ally: So if you decide that he needs to be denied – there is no way out for him?

Ms Harper: Possibly tears. I love the way tears hanging on the tips of eyelashes look, or running down a cheek. I can be moved by really heartfelt tears.

Ms Ally: Oh I love when begging turns to crying…So sexy, so vulnerable.

Ms Harper: Oh, one of my favorite things in the world!!! and the little catch in their voice, the honesty, intimacy, the openness…

Ms Ally: Exactly! So, what about chastity devices. What’s your take on masturbators who feel that they need to be locked in a cage in order to be obedient?

Ms Harper: I think it’s good when a chronic stroker can be honest about their lack of self control, can actually say that they need to be controlled by a something or someone outside of themselves. I also really love the feeling of power it gives me to turn the lock and know that until I hand over that key, it doesn’t matter how they beg, plead, or cry… I like to put the keys on a chain and wear them around my neck, next to my heart.

Ms Ally: What about erotic humiliation? I hear you’re well versed in this area.

Ms Harper: For me, erotic humiliation is very closely tied to mind games; to know someone so intimately and deeply that I can, with a single word or phrase, totally reduce them to a sobbing puddle at my feet? Priceless.

Ms Ally: If someone called and told you they wanted to be humiliated, but didn’t tell you much more than that, how would you go about figuring out what they wanted and needed?

Ms Harper: I start out by letting them know a bit about where I’m coming from in humiliation, my philosophy about it. I tell them that for each person, what most deeply humiliates and embarrasses them is different and unique. I like to take the time to get to know my clients as individuals, make sure I understand both what humiliates them, but ~why~ it embarrasses them so. With that knowledge, I can make the scene exactly perfect for them; when I can understand the motivation behind a given need I can meet it more fully. And then I get to have my fun!

Ms Ally: Have you ever cuckolded a partner?

Ms Harper: I have. He kept accusing me of cheating, so I decided to give him a show. There were stockings and neckties, to tie him to a chair, and then I had one of my girls come over. We gave him something to see, and he LOVED it. He was begging us to release him, let him join in… he was so turned on he eventually ruined a very nice pair of slacks! And after that, he’d “accuse” me every few weeks, just to get the experience again.

Ms Ally: Oh so you cuckolded him with another woman?

Ms Harper: That first time, yes. It was a special fantasy of his, to see me with a woman. It was a special fantasy of mine, a few weeks later, to have him securely tied and helplessly watching me with his best friend!

Ms Ally: Oh no! What happened during that scene?

Ms Harper: He started out all happy and excited, chattering on about how I was a dirty slut to do that with a woman… When the door opened, his mouth dropped open and I swear he stuttered! He started yelling and begging, and got so loud I had to gag him (he slobbered all over my favorite pair of panties…) Once he finally shut up and started to actually watch what was going on, well, it was a good thing I’d pulled his pants down around his knees or he’d have ruined yet another pair of dress pants!

Ms Ally: So he watched you have sex right in front of him with his best friend…

Ms Harper: and wound up completely loving it. When I finally untied him and let him up he begged me to let him clean me up. It was so cute!

Ms Ally: What a nice guy! Creampies for dessert.

Ms Harper: It was his first… the first creampie of many! lol!

Ms Ally: So, how long have you been a Phone Mistress?

Ms Harper: I’ve been working as a Phone Mistress for around a year now. I started with a ‘regular’ company, and quickly discovered that callers would respond well to my particular brand of sadistic yet sweet sex. I found something I love doing, and I have no intention of stopping, ever!

Ms Ally: What’s your favorite type of call?

Ms Harper: My favorite calls are really deep, intimate, intellectual conversations. I love to get to know my callers, as people first, with needs, a life outside the call and fully formed personalities. I really enjoy making a connection with them, and then delivering something for them that they often can’t find outside our relationship.

Ms Ally: That’s hot

Ms Ally: So, anything else that you’d like to tell our readers to help them decide if a session with you is right for them?

Ms Harper: If you’re looking for a smart, sweet yet secretly sadistic woman to have long rambly conversations with about sex, society and kink/fetish topics, or if you want to explore your own limits and boundaries, drop me a line. I’m only a little scary, I promise.

Ms Ally: Excellent! Thank you for spending some time with me this evening. It’s been great!

Ms Harper: Thank you!